Helpful Hints to Liberating Your Mind from the Threat of Betrayal

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …

“I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I really want to find my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two ways to go here. 1) You can wait until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and letting go of the past. Considering you want to find your soul mate, then I’d do the work in letting go. It is quicker and easier than you think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.

Receiving guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re making new space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You are allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Furthermore, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment, do you think you are going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that weigh you down, muss up your energy level and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.

I find that the idea of forgiving can be a loaded one. First off, I’m not talking about the kind of forgiveness where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It’s important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to know what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of hurt, you will either attract more hurt or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.